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| I must THINK before I speak French. |
I have a grand plan to practice and learn more of the French language since France has become our annual vacation location. I have repeated this plan for the last few years, but haven't made sufficient progress.
I really need to improve my command of the language. Seriously. It's time.
With only five months until the next trip, I am setting goals to increase my vocabulary, improve my conjugation of verbs and my ability to converse. I'm also listening to many of the songs of the late Edith Piaf (
La Vie En Rose fame) to make this task more enjoyable.
Languages are tedious to learn. I'm easily distracted.
My education included four years of French. Taught by a US Southern lady. Drawl and all! Not so good. Humorous, in fact. Slow and drawn-out syllables.
My pronunciation is an embarrassment when I speak, but I have found that making the effort is truly rewarding. The French appear to forgive me (and probably laugh when I leave) as long as I use these magic words
:Bonjour (
madame, mademoiselle or
monsieur). Always say hello.
S'il vous plait. Please.
Merci. Thank you.
Au revoir. Goodbye.
Those four years of classes were rather academic and severely lacked conversational training. I read French better than I speak it. I understand it better than I speak it. However, I cannot put answers together very quickly. I have to think about it awhile—too long!
My husband with his four years of the language, doesn't understand the spoken fast-French. But, he is very skilled at constructing sentences rather quickly.
Much to the amusement of the French—our interactions go something like this:
- I order our food or ask a question in my pre-planned French.
- I mostly understand the French reply.
- I translate to my husband in English.
- He answers in French.
This causes some confusion about our American culture or maybe our marriage. It seems that, as a woman, I must not be allowed to reply! Honestly, my husband is not a male chauvinist at all.
Separately, we cannot function with the language. Together, we are one!
C'est lui pour moi. Moi pour lui. (He's for me. I'm for him.)